Research shows that the more time you spend on screen scrolling down you social media accounts the more stressed you’ll be. Especially, when you look at your timeline and you see your friends’ updates: some got engaged, some got married, some got babies, and some graduated for their masters and even doctorates already! Then your heart starts to sink and think like you’re not getting anywhere.
This is the thing: you have your own timeline and it doesn’t have to be the same as your friends’. It is wonderful to be reminded that God never used cookie cutter when he created each person’s story. Here are some implications for you to put it into perspective:
When most of your friends got their second degree at the age of 27, it doesn’t mean you have to.
When most of your friends tied the knots by the age of 25, it doesn’t mean you have to.
When some of your friends who went abroad for studies found their soulmates there, it doesn’t mean you have to.
When most of your friends got their first baby at the age of 26 or even younger, it doesn’t mean you have to.
You are on your own timeline and you are fine! You just need to live your life as if you’re gonna die tomorrow. Don’t let those thoughts worry you. Don’t let those thoughts wear you down. Remember that God makes everything beautiful in its time. Your story doesn’t have to be the same as your friends’. Your story is special, specially woven by the hands of the Lord Himself.
Everything doesn’t have to happen now, rest assured that the Lord is at work and He will make it happen in His time.
Have great evening, great people!